Our Experience is needed~ Our knowledge must be shared!

Recently, my last two publications were snatched I took them off because I learned they were offensive and was taken personally, friendships are more important then getting a message across for a possible reader, if you have friends you know they come far and few its better to retain that friendship then to save face for a potential customer/reader. I do apologize to my readers that found the last two post interesting or informative and thank you for your patience while I do some damage control and re accessing.

For my sister friends who are very important in my life, your presence means so much and has impacted my life forever I am grateful. My writings are never about just one person or one thing unless that persons name is listed, its about topics of conversation and life in general and it may hit home sometimes or sound like I'm speaking directly but that's just me being in the spirit. My purpose is never to harm just to enlighten, inform and motivate, sharing what we all have experienced on one occasion or another.

Please don't take it as though I'm talking about YOU I'm talking to, for, about, US, the world and I. Somebody is writing or has written about all of our circumstances directly or indirectly.

Criticism Is a Hard Pill To Swallow~ Don't kill the Messenger!

Can you take criticism? In my latest efforts to give readers helpful information I received criticism and I wasn't sitting down :(. Despite my recent back injury nothing is wrong with my efforts to achieve my goals and get out as much helpful information as possible to my readers. You may find in my efforts of relinquishing needed info a wrong word typo or comments that are not helpful to you, this time, but keep in mind these shared experiences are helpful for someone else.

We all must welcome criticism and take it as a FORM OF FRIENDLY ADVICE but we don't. We are all humans and in my humanness I must admit I too was not feeling the criticism. Freely we give, freely you will receive solicited and unsolicited advice when asked or not. When you give away free what people should be paying for then you and they are not recognizing the value. We become so busy trying to ascertain our goals we forget or lose the main objective of that goal. Mind's is being successful displaying exemplary service. Yours may be to achieve a high standard of great products. With both there's always room for improvement.

Our skills are evident and my perfections well there's work to be done but as I have contemplated too long to perfect I would have never taken steps to proceed, I can say this I'm not talking anymore I am writing~I've taken yet another task off the shelf. Perfections keeps you from implementing. Jim Palmer the newsletter guru says, take massive action start now! stop changing dates! you will have a messy kitchen, but at least you will have dishes to clean or in my case words to correct at a later date. So don't let your fears of what if? people don't read it, what if? people don't like it, or wear it exc., stop you from starting it NOW. Just start it! you have the pen and paper those are the tools I needed. Yours may-be a blank canvas, paint and a brush. The experience or contemplation will be a perfect day, " Today" to start, the perfection will never come in our uncertainties.

In all your efforts of dreadful mistakes, blockhead awkward moments, self-criticisms and of others push yourself to begin, now! you will thank me later I promise! Me