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In The Name of Anger

When we let anger control who we are and our lives, we suffer the consequences of losing precious time. Anger in any form damages our very being what we do, how we act and do to others. The way we act towards others and how we are treated by them is what we are sending through the universe, I myself have experienced this anger first hand, so I know. When someone tells you of a situation that angered them they are basically living in the moment of that anger as it is spoken. So how you listen and even address some of what they are saying at this crucial time is important. When someone tells you something that may hurt your ears or make you feel sad, angry, and despicable just try and listen. Do not join them in their anger this could lead to you both suffering a result of something you don't fully understand. Just find and state the positive, "you are alive", soften the conversation if you can but without risking the persons anger turning on you. I recently overheard a conversation during a bus ride two people were explaining the abuse they had been experiencing. Well, I don't have names but the conversation was full of, "girl he called me this", "girl I hit him", "girl I spat on him", "The stick broke over his back". Well unfortunately you the reader or I don't know if these two are talking about someone they love or hate. Presumably, I'll suggest hate but then and again there are many who would take this from someone they are madly in love with. "In the name of anger, I do Love to Hate you". What is this some crazy end to know end. Well on my seemingly never ending bus ride I heard the last part of the conversation they both felt remorse, one more then the other but one said he deserved what he got and assumed they wouldn't hear from him again. Also, turns out this person wants some kind of deep meaningful connection to exists between them they are in love in the name of anger. One have to ask what is this love measured on. As I gathered the limited data I could not measure the hypothesis among and between these variables. So I sat in my seat, "almost missing my stop", saddened by what I had overheard yet relieved because hearing that story bought me to one for sure conclusion they both are alive. What will they do with that positive fact. These days I am loving myself, in the name of love and granting others mercy out of any angry experiences, we all are human.